The eastern tradition, being steeped in its own myth systems and of a more contemplative orientation generally (as opposed to idealized (in ...

I mimicked the Klaw style (there being no real technique) for a little while before stumbling upon John “Willie” Coutts and his Gwendolyn dr...

(Excerpted from a 2002 public lecture / demonstration) Thank you all for coming, and thanks also to A. for the invitation to speak tonight, ...

Dear J., Following our most recent exchange I am very thoughtful about the whole matter of man qua dom and its characterization (both from w...

A little while back I had a very fruitful exchange with a woman relatively new to BDSM and interested in bondage. She is fiercely intelligen...

The Chicken/egg question, eluded to in my last post : Does BDSM affect my (passive) psyche, or is it my psyche doing the heavy lifting? Als...