The Chicken/egg question, eluded to in my last post : Does BDSM affect my (passive) psyche, or is it my psyche doing the heavy lifting? Als...

One hears ad nauseum that kink deranges the finding and building of solid relationships and abiding love. I disagree. Certainly there are ma...

What role do you identify as having? I find the entire question of rôles and identity somewhat notional, to be honest, for everyone I've...

As those closest to me would tell you, the question of "why?" is to me surpassingly unimportant. Any psychic or emotional energy s...

The establishment cant about porn usually has something to do with its subversion of the otherwise wholesome attitudes, appetites and sensib...

Starting not from the beginning, but rather where I think my answers start to take on some interest, here is where my scholarly interlocutor...